||Late to the party but here to bitch too.
What is up with all the people here having parents get pissed at them for being sick or having a minor period leak etc?
||My Nmom is an attention seeker but obviously no normal person wants to be around her toxic personality, so she fakes illnesses and complains to everyone as an attempt to get people to pity her.
||Hit, insulted, bullied, lied to, criticized, made to feel small and ashamed and scared?
Absolutely not saying that you should avoid calling when your Ns threaten suicide, just contextualizing the unfortunate relationship between police and people with mental illness in the US.
||I've often felt that once my Narc S-I-L finally drops dead, that I'll be doing backflips and singing the song from the Wizard of Oz:
"Ding-dong the witch is dead, which old witch?
||When I stared crying, she told me not even 5 minutes later to stop crying or she'd give me something to cry about and I'm just like...you already did?
It's very messed up indeed.
||It's abusive as hell and it's disgusting.
||After this apparently sisters tone improved and she transferred her the money but girlfriend is sick and tired of her shit already so didn't reply.
||Not only that, but once you leave them, they'll say you are coldblooded, evil, heartless, etc.
||Nmom would then look at me in disgust and say "Stop crying or I'll give you something to really cry about".